For some time I’ve been looking around for something that is partly spiritual, partly motivational, partly meditation based and partly nature focused. I’m keen to embrace a culture or a following. Not a faith. I have no interest in anything religious. The obvious things to look at are anything with Buddhism at its core. I…
Author: Mark
Journalling to freedom
I carry a journal with me everywhere I go. I often write to it when I’m enjoying a coffee or something stronger whilst watching the world go by. Occasionally I’ll jot down notes as I’m working. I’ll even write to it if I’m sat stationary in a traffic queue. The great thing about writing as…
What Does Emotional Attachment Mean?
The Simple Pleasures
Today it’s all about the simple pleasures. I have a book, some free time and a seat in a coffee shop. There’s rarely anything complex about my life these days. Quite by design I can assure you. I enjoy friends, family and social events as much as the next guy. But today it’s all about…
A Matter Of Identity
For a long time I’ve been battling something that is both confusing and challenging. It all boils down to passions and strengths. I’ll try to explain by way of what is a ‘normal’ life. I guess my views on a normal existence would be that, as an adult, you go to work, you earn your…
Morning thoughts of love
What do they mean? Where do they come from? I often wake with a clear thought in my mind. This morning was no different. I’d slept well, didn’t recall a dream, and woke to the rain and grey skies. I always sleep with the curtains open. My thought was clear; an embrace. With whom I…
Overcoming rejection
Dealing with loss is perhaps the toughest of all human emotions. It tears at your heart and leaves your soul in tatters. To have ‘had’ something so special and then to have lost it, whatever the circumstances, is unbearable. Curse our human brains and their ability to process thought in such minute detail. Sometimes it’s…
Happiness is comfort and safety
Being happy is a wonderful emotion and something to strive for daily. Some days it’s easier to achieve than others. Happiness, for me, is all about being relaxed and safe. My favourite days (that is, days where I can be indulgent and enjoy ‘me’ time) are generally those days where I can set aside time…
My pick of movies to chill out to
Switch the phone off, dim the lights and put your feet up in front of the TV for a couple of hours of movie escapism. Here’s my choice for some quality viewing on a late winter’s evening. I confess here that I’m a sucker for the romantic comedies but there’s also nothing quite like a…
Coping with a loss of identity and purpose
As a child I was active. I enjoyed the outside, football, running, cycling. I was a typical child growing up in England in the late 1970s and early 1980s.As a teenager I started to become aware of who I was. That is to say, who I felt I ‘should’ be. Identity became an important part…